Handling Rejection With Women

Rejection is part of the game. Now when I say that sounds great theoretically, but men and women hate feeling like we have being rejected. How could somebody we know not realize how cool and interesting we are?

Here's the thing, sometimes women have shit going on in their life and they are not interested in your or anybody else for that matter.

Sometimes you are just not compatible with another women. And other times your approach wasn't really expressive or dynamic enough to impress her. Not that Your goal should be to impress her. But sometimes, more often that not really, they are just factors way beyond your control. A great program I have used to handle rejection is the Tao System by Joshua Pellicer.

Even the best seducers, for every one women that is in their life in a romantic way, there are nice women in line behind her who rejected him. In one way or another, whether it was physically such as back of buddy she just wasn't interested in even talking.

You have to realize that rejection is a wonderful element of becoming a great seducer and it is painful but it never stops sucking when a women tells you she's not interested in you. But you learn so much from it. All the best seducers have 10 times more rejections than successes. So with that in mind there is no way around it.

I don't care what any guru says about full proof rejection, full proof methods, it's all bullshit. The only way around rejection is to go through it. It is very valuable. Just like death is apart of life.

Everything works in opposites. All you got to do is embrace rejection. It's the only masculine thing to do. Invite it, learn from it and you will see your results skyrocket.

I highly recommend the Tao System By Joshua Pellicer if you want to learn more ways on how to handle rejection and get more dates with women.

How to Chat Up Women At The Gym

So you want to know how to chat up women at the gym?

You want to avoid approaching women at the gym if she is already distracted doing something else. If she is running or walking on the treadmill with her head phones on, this is a bad time to interrupting her routine and preventing her from doing what she wants to do. There are obviously a lot of health and safety issues there as well. So what you want to do is wait for her to leave the gym, hang out by the reception, hang out by the water fountain or even to buy a protein bar.

When she comes down off the machine should only speak to her for a short period of time because she may want to do a different exercise on another machine. She may have a limited time frame and maybe other priorities that she may have instead of chatting to you,no matter how smooth of a talker of you. So after you speak to her, you could say, "Hey you know what, I should let you get back to your workout". Let them go. If you are members at the same gym, chances are your going to probably see them again.

You might even be able to stop and chat to her numerous times during one session. Just make sure that you don't disrupt her exercise during a routine to the point where she's not even listen to you speak to her anymore because she is too busy worrying about the fact that she should be getting back to her workout.

The gym is just not a good place to give a compliment about someone's physical appearance, first of all because they are so self-conscious because when they are alone in the gym they feel kind of sweaty and don't have any makeup on. And also because they are doing physical activity they want to be able to workout without feeling that guys are checking you out or making you feel self-conscious.

So instead you want to use something more observational, for example say, "Oh I love how to gym always plays "techno music" like this on a Friday. Something like that is not related to her will help you get into a normal conversation without making her feel self conscious about herself.

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How to approach women without freezing up

I want to share with you, one principle that will help you at approaching girls and starting up conversations with people in general. What do most guys do when they see a hot woman they are interested in? What happens?

Freeze Up Approaching Women

Well normally guys go about their business in whatever state of mind they are in at that present moment. When they see her they freeze up and try to act cool and look a bit more serious. This creeps women in a public area and you just freeze up and don't approach them. Do you know why guys do this? They want to talk to girls they are attracted to but they don't talk to her because they are afraid of saying all the wrong things or that she won't like him.

Excuses for Not Talking to Women

They come up with lots of different excuses why they girl wouldn't be interested in them, basically they think of all the reasons why I will not work out for them. If you have ever been in this situation there is one thing you must do to get out of this mindset if you do actually want to meet and approach girls.

The key is to take action and think later. What I mean is, when you see somebody you are attracted to, walk up to them and say what's on your mind. Whether you are sitting in a bar, a club or cafe and you see a couple of girls and there is something interesting about them, "Tell Them, Right there and then before you have time to think about it"!

The Art of Conversation

Practice conversations before you have found your perfect way of opening a conversation with someone. Practice speaking before you can even think about it. If you do this a few times and you make a fool of yourself (I don't think you will) but keep going anyway. The key is to practice to speak first first or act first and then you can start thinking about it if you want to.

To be perfectly honest, thinking of what you  are going to say to women never really works and will make you feel worse for not saying or doing anything to show you are interested in them. Try this out and see how you get on.



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Best of luck!