Wednesday, July 10, 2013

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How to approach women without freezing up

I want to share with you, one principle that will help you at approaching girls and starting up conversations with people in general. What do most guys do when they see a hot woman they are interested in? What happens?

Freeze Up Approaching Women


Well normally guys go about their business in whatever state of mind they are in at that present moment. When they see her they freeze up and try to act cool and look a bit more serious. This creeps women in a public area and you just freeze up and don't approach them. Do you know why guys do this? They want to talk to girls they are attracted to but they don't talk to her because they are afraid of saying all the wrong things or that she won't like him.

Excuses for Not Talking to Women


They come up with lots of different excuses why they girl wouldn't be interested in them, basically they think of all the reasons why I will not work out for them. If you have ever been in this situation there is one thing you must do to get out of this mindset if you do actually want to meet and approach girls.

The key is to take action and think later. What I mean is, when you see somebody you are attracted to, walk up to them and say what's on your mind. Whether you are sitting in a bar, a club or cafe and you see a couple of girls and there is something interesting about them, "Tell Them, Right there and then before you have time to think about it"!

The Art of Conversation


Practice conversations before you have found your perfect way of opening a conversation with someone. Practice speaking before you can even think about it. If you do this a few times and you make a fool of yourself (I don't think you will) but keep going anyway. The key is to practice to speak first first or act first and then you can start thinking about it if you want to.

To be perfectly honest, thinking of what you  are going to say to women never really works and will make you feel worse for not saying or doing anything to show you are interested in them. Try this out and see how you get on.

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Best of luck!

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